Which love language do you speak?
In the past few weeks, I came across several people who mentioned their ‘love language’, as opposed to their partners’. This is the kind of thing that tickles my curiosity and makes me go on an information hunt on blogs and videos, not really knowing what to look for. So, I will save you the trouble and talk about the five love languages on here.
To be completely honest it wasn’t that hard. There is an official website with a handy test, and that’s the first result on Google. Let’s pretend all of this is some arcane knowledge that only few had access to, until today.
What are the five love languages?
They are five distinct and universal ways to express and experience love. A relationship between two people is based on expressing emotions and interpreting the messages we receive from our partner. It’s not necessary to share the same love language as our partner but understanding the different way they might communicate feelings is mandatory in a healthy relationship. Another important thing to be aware of is that, typically, someone will give love in the same way they prefer to receive it, too.
Only the mind of Gary Chapman, an anthropologist with a theology background, could come up with this theory. According to him, even though we tend to favour one language more than the others, we still enjoy traits of all of them. Also, these languages, if scaled appropriately, can apply to other kinds of relationships including friendships.
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To be completely honest it wasn’t that hard. There is an official website with a handy test, and that’s the first result on Google. Let’s pretend all of this is some arcane knowledge that only few had access to, until today.
What are the five love languages?
They are five distinct and universal ways to express and experience love. A relationship between two people is based on expressing emotions and interpreting the messages we receive from our partner. It’s not necessary to share the same love language as our partner but understanding the different way they might communicate feelings is mandatory in a healthy relationship. Another important thing to be aware of is that, typically, someone will give love in the same way they prefer to receive it, too.
Only the mind of Gary Chapman, an anthropologist with a theology background, could come up with this theory. According to him, even though we tend to favour one language more than the others, we still enjoy traits of all of them. Also, these languages, if scaled appropriately, can apply to other kinds of relationships including friendships.
- Words of affirmation
- Quality time
- Receiving gifts
- Acts of service
- Physical touch
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